honestly, sometimes this is the best thing you can do for someone. Isn’t it the best feeling ever when you can do something nice for someone? I like to give that feeling away. If a friend wants to help me, I let them. If someone compliments me, I’m usually super awkward about it, but I tend to thank them warmly and cheerfully, even if I don’t see what they see. If a friend is worried about me, I let them in. I let them be my friend. Don’t be an island unto yourself, always giving. Receive, too. It could be the nicest thing you ever do for anyone.